How To Be Happy

Writer: Fasiha Khan

How to be Happy…

Happiness is one of the human feelings which not only tends to keeps your atmosphere lively but also encourages your positive enthusiasm for your better working practices.

God have made human with the combination of senses and feelings. Among them the most desired one, by almost all the individuals, is happiness. Happiness itself is further combine with the feelings of satisfaction, calmness and love. All these are most wanted feels that shares a great wiegth among all.

Before coming to ‘How to be happy’ we first need to look what makes us unhappy, so to minimize it. Our day to day routine involves different factors which makes a person depress by mind and dull in mood and thus loses his inner desire to remain happy! In addition to daily routine; most of the people around us becomes the victim of weak faith and trust in them. They share less confidence in their inner power and faith in universal system which makes them forced to feel pressurized by routine ups and downs.

The first step for ‘how to be happy’ is to make your belief stronger in your potential and inner capabilities and revising your strategies to tackle the hurdles in a better way, i.e. Instead of blaming “Why”; redesign your strategy and start thinking “How” how to make myself able to do so, how to take out good from it… And so on... This activity will not only make you feel able to meet your challenges well but also raise up your inner feeling of actualization and hence, leads you to prosperity ,,, in all keeping you happy..

For aiming to be happy under all situations, simply every time, a positive belief and feedback is essential. It is often said that ‘A man is what he believes and what he thinks’. Therefore, if you believe to be optimist and have positive approach, you’ll definitely achieve positive results. Similarly, believing in possibility of things will make things possible for you and so makes you feel happy. Thus make your habit to think for worthy ideas and make your belief positive for it, you’ll certainly be able to accomplish it and have joy of real inner happiness. Being in a circle of good friends can help you to have positive feedback for your activities and also encouragement to make your way to progression and increasing your goodness. A bad community of friends is harm to your brain and thus your level of achievement.

 For the incessant happiness in your life, you need to have pre-planning and organizing of your strategic plans about your life. You need to predetermine your values which you want as your dream family to have, the position you need to attain, the fame you want to achieve and so on… Once you have plan them in advance you then need to find a suitable key to reach those levels that you made for yourself. Planning in advance, means  your goals, will help you to remain consistent and make your way that you have initially planned, hence avoiding you to drift away and keeping you calm and on track.

 Happiness is a treasury feel, you have everything but if it can’t make you feel happy and satisfy, it is of no use to you. Life is given once; you must make it adventurous and lively instead of boring or failure to make it happy for you. Define your happiness, means be a part of those activities, things and people with whom you feel happy instead of those who annoy you. Classify how you term a ‘good being’ for yourself and begin your journey to it, your life will positively be filled with real happiness!