Thursday, August 9, 2012

Writer : Fasiha Khan


How to take full charge of your life …?

Life is something very own to every human. It is an unseen treasure which allows uncountable experiences, fruits and learning with it.

Life is having many turns with it. It requires the ability of an individual to make use of each turn because simply, these turns will never return!

I remember the time, when I realize the fact that my life is only & only my responsibility, as it was a little before due to young age ;) ... Coming to the point, it is highly required for you to firstly understand that you are responsible for yourself and, henceforward, your life. You must have to realize that no one would be here to share your failure, Instead you are alone to face the different turns of your life. Your friends, parents and relatives will not escape you from complexities or give you a place of ease and respectability. It is only you, who have all the charge of your own life and its involvements.

After the fact of realization, there comes a point to make you prepare for planning. You need to be alive & advance in planning, as the planning in advance will give you a direction to work towards, a strict focus by which you cannot be distracted easily due to ups and downs coming in way of your life… Preplanning will give you an ability to be prepared in advance and fight with the challenges and, therefore, making your way to accomplishment :) …

Similarly, in order to take full charge of your life and making things in your way highly requires your inner power and self strength within yourself. If you feel yourself weak or puzzled with regards to your ability to be responsible, then you may not be a good liable. You need to regain you inner authority on daily basis by some ways of continuous prompting to the belief and trust in yourself. This will gradually help you to actualize that you are blessed with all the richness required for you to be perfectly responsible at your own. It would be helpful for you to regularly pinch yourself with the fact that
“Your life is yours … all the rights are reserved to you… you have to take it at best!”

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Political awareness

Writer: Fasiha Khan


“Why political awareness is important for youth”



It is often said that man by nature is political animal. It’s true that nature have talented the elements of political germs in every individual …

How the nature has contributed political intelligence in every human …?

Let’s understand the view in detail!

Politics is about the norms and principles; a foundation of ideology over which Government rules. It is the way of public officials who make decisions about public policy. This concept reveals that politics is actually a direct relation of people and their rights with the public. Now, when it comes to the context of local people, means the treatment to rights, they get sensitive and concerned to political matters; as any political decision will in return effect the community as a whole.

Having the political sense in mature age is a wrong sense of actualization. Political awareness basically gives you the realization of your fundamental rights. Now the question comes, if you are unaware of your basic rights then would you claim them? Means you would like to be affected from injustice, as u do not know what rights you sustain. Similarly, you welcome to spend your life with compromises instead of making the things in your way! You are only able to exercise your rights when you basically know about them, such as freedom of speech, freedom of religion, equal protection under common law and the essential rights prevailing with democracy and its essence…

It is necessary for youth to be aware of political affairs, they are the possession of the country where the expected brighten future is in their hands. They are required to be responsive to the activities of politics, the concept about law and power and the practices it is having, from an early age... keeping in touch with political affairs from young age will help to drive the best political sense among the individuals which further involves two enormous advantages. First that the individuals will know the grounds on which they prefer to vote the specific leader/political party.  Unfortunately most of the people give their vote having no political knowledge and by fake and worthless influence which gives no benefit of representation and hence ultimately results in harm to the interests of country. The political familiarity will give logical reasons to judge and so prefer the best deserving leaders to come forward and take the responsibility on the country’s behalf. Secondly they can have the opportunity to organize and participate fully in political, economic and cultural lives of society. This’ll become possible by remaining in tune to political understanding from history as well as presence. This will help the individuals to raise their observation and hence ability to distinguish between right and wrong and to give political opinion.

Not only this, if we view the importance with regards to our basic responsibility, i.e. given by our religion in terms of our faith, is that we share the responsibility to make our land peaceful and growing all in terms of social, economical & civil lives. We are blessed by the sound history as a role model to follow with practical solutions for us. Quran and lives of our Prophets are here to teach and influence us to work for the growing justice, peace, prosperity and healthy disciplinary values based on the secular vision. Thus, it is our duty to make our land peaceful by all means of political, social and economical richness, to make the flaws in our system better and hence corrected by following the successful code of life, i.e. principles stated in Quran, and by all our efforts and determination to do so, like our Prophets did.

To end up with, that politics exists to serve the people, for the better outcome and welfare, people specially youngsters must remain involved to the matters and intends to have active participation and contribution. 



Sunday, July 22, 2012

Self Actualisation

We must look for ways to be an active force in our own lives... we must take charge of our own destinies, design a life of substance and truly begin to live our own dreams; because  life has no limitations, except the one we make!


Saturday, July 7, 2012

Why it is important to allow yourself to do Mistakes…

Writer  :  Fasiha Ayub

 Category: Personal Development 

Why it is important to allow yourself to do Mistakes…


Mistake - - - as heard by name, a negative, down and a resent feeling come in mind. The sense involved in mistake is usually considered as undesirable in any stage of life, whether young, mid or any.
Ill advisedly, this is the wrong and wretched fact linked with the presence of mistake. Mistake, infact, is a series of learning. It gives person a lesson for future and adds in his experience for life long. However, to make learning and experience more sound, it is necessary to take mistakes positively and gave them a optimistic and learning view.
A strange fact linked with mistakes is that the lesson learned from doing a mistake always remain in close consciousness as compared to typical ways of learning & enhancing, such as lessons from book reading, elder’s advice etc. It is due to the perception of mind and its acceptance that once an individual have commit a mistake it remembers it so deeply because it involves the fact of practical experience that keeps the lessons alive for lifetime.
Conversely, our traditional and social values of society have created myths with regards to making mistake. A person who does a mistake is usually considered to be failure in society. The community views the person as a looser that is not allowed to be given a respectable and honorable place again easily. Therefore, anyone who makes a mistake, as being initial beginner of practical life, feels himself depressed and guilty for what he does wrong, instead of taking it as a part of learning involvement in the phase of life.
Unfortunately, our society influences the individual so closely and deeply that it leaves a great impact on his/her career life & development. Society views the person who takes risks as adventures, as a crazy person or perhaps an out of mind and, Hence puts a stamp on his future go! This demoralizes the potential creativity within a human but, however, no one can put a full stop on thought process going within a person’s mind. History is here to prove this law, like Einstein, Newton, Thomas Edison and many other creative minded people were not up to the mark in early stages of life, such as academics and learning etc., but, however, bright ideas, inventive thoughts and spirit to do some thing innovative and creative have made it possible for them to keep their names alive for years and years and make them part of history.
In this advancing and socializing era, we are highly required to break these traditional fables associated with making mistakes and typical learning capacity of individuals. Our values should accept the potential caliber of individual and should allow them a handful support to encourage them in their way of thinking, opinion, and an active contribution, it will generally help to bring out more scientist and creative people among us. Our morals must allow individuals to learn by their own experience, which is by trying at their own perhaps by making mistakes and learning from the outcomes.  
Undoubtedly, Traditional norms and society is not here to decide the latent success level and passion of creativity within a person. Every single individual of society must have freedom of mind, speech and thoughts to allow them to think, do and to live at their own.  It’s the right of all individuals at any stage of life, as all the life of a human should be a learning and practicing age, there must not be a limit to it to create their own human identity, personal development and their success level in life…



Friday, April 6, 2012

The Secret

The Most Essential Leadership Qualities


Th secrets of High Quality Leadership

Integrity is perhaps the most valued and respected quality of leadership and one of the most important management skills you need to attain. By saying what you’ll do and then doing what you say, you will build trust around your team.

Do you stand up and speak out for what you believe? Do you demonstrate the courage to stay the course when the going gets tough and the outcome looks uncertain?

What makes a good leader is the ability to stay calm and in control, especially when everyone around them is wondering whether it’s the right decision or if it was a mistake to commit to a particular course of action. When you exude confidence in yourself, in the decision, and in the people around you, you instill the same feelings and attitudes in others.

Leaders have what is called “courageous patience.” Between the decision and the result, there is always a period of uncertainty when no one knows if the effort is going to be successful. To be a successful leader, you must strive to have these essential leadership qualities.


If you have lived with this feeling many times in your career, you’re in good company.