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The Secret

The Most Essential Leadership Qualities

Th secrets of High Quality Leadership

Integrity is perhaps the most valued and respected quality of leadership and one of the most important management skills you need to attain. By saying what you’ll do and then doing what you say, you will build trust around your team.

Do you stand up and speak out for what you believe? Do you demonstrate the courage to stay the course when the going gets tough and the outcome looks uncertain?

What makes a good leader is the ability to stay calm and in control, especially when everyone around them is wondering whether it’s the right decision or if it was a mistake to commit to a particular course of action. When you exude confidence in yourself, in the decision, and in the people around you, you instill the same feelings and attitudes in others.

Leaders have what is called “courageous patience.” Between the decision and the result, there is always a period of uncertainty when no one knows if the effort is going to be successful. To be a successful leader, you must strive to have these essential leadership qualities.

If you have lived with this feeling many times in your career, you’re in good company.

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Writer :Fasiha Khan

Importance of Goals

A prosperous Life  is waiting … But, HOW?
The four alphabet word “GOAL”, looks small but carries great depth and meaning to an individual’s life …
Goal shares strong emphasis to those who want their lives to be planned, progressive and according to what they wanted to. An average or unplanned person may not share the same thoughts as they do not have courage to take charge of their own life. They do not lead their instead, Instead time and situations lead them..However, for any one who values the opportunity of life and want their dreams to fit into coming time will have clear & prewritten goals for them.
It is truly said “there are no limits to what you can achieve except for the limits you put on your imaginations… since there are no limits to what you can imagine, there are no limits to what you can achieve.” This means that achievements in future/life directly relates with the size of imaginations, i.e. a Goal itself!. Set little goals… You‘ll achieve low, whereas set your goal standards high, your natural capability will allow you to achieve higher.
In order to imagine high, firstly fanaticize your perfect future by considering that there are no limitations for you in coming time. You are free to achieve, what you want. Therefore, make your attitude towards life in such a way that “Refuse to compromise your dreams at”. This strategy will encourage you to unlock your potential and welcome the encouraging time at all costs.
After planning your imaginations, in terms of goal, now you need to split your goals in smaller segments where you can determine what to be done in each day. Write down your goals, make plans to achieve them and work on your plans every single day. Performing every day and being stick to goal is necessary. Absence of realization of what you aimed will possibly drift you away from seeking accomplishment of your long term vision.
For you to make more prosperous and brighter goals, it is highly required to adopt optimistic approach in all regards. Optimism leads you with a positive look around your life, issues, matters and so a better dealing with it. When you feel positive and takes charge of your life, you’ll set bigger and more challenging goals.
Taking control of your life and considering yourself as a sole responsible for your life and matters, you take charge of your own life and become strong, practical & foresighted.With this deliberation, you will be helped to come out of dilemmafrom being trapped in past, you will limit yourself to find excuses and blaming others. You consider yourself solely responsible for anything that happens to you. This fact will take you to decide that you will like yourself to think and plan for your future, because the point that you are responsible and hence to have a remarkable stake in coming time. The more you think in future, the better decisions you make in present. Moreover, A golden tip related here,, while make yourself responsible and deciding in above manner, always think about what you want and all the possible ways to get it, instead of think what you don’t want! Simply, deciding what you want will take you towards your goal.
To end up with, always seek to have goal orientated prospect. As all the successful people, achievers, million/billionaires, or anyone who is satisfied from the feats of lifewill certainly tell you the secret of their success as having the defined, clear goals and ultimately a burning desire to achieve them!

Make Life Easier! Maintain a Great Work-Life Balance

By Brian Tracy
 
Make Life Easier! Maintain a Great Work-Life Balance

work-life balance - reduce waste of timeYour goal is to live a long, happy life, full of joy and satisfaction, to realize your potential, and to become everything you are capable of becoming. The starting point of achieving balance and make life easier is for you to set your own happiness as the primary goal of your life, and then organize everything you do to achieve that happiness.

Fully 85% of your happiness comes from your relationships with other people – at home, at work, and in every area of your life. You require a balance between your work and your personal life in order to be happy.
Achieve Work-Life Balance

In your work and career, you need to be doing work that you enjoy, that gives you a sense of personal fulfillment, that pays you well, and which you do in an excellent fashion; your life can quickly get out of balance if you are lacking in this area.

The average person feels that he or she has too much work to do and that this is the major reason that his or her life is out of balance. This is seldom true.

The fact is that most working people waste fully 50% of their time. Idol chit-chat with co-workers, reading a newspaper, surfing the internet, personal business, long coffee breaks and lunches, coming in late and leaving early is a waste of time. The average person only works about 50% of the time, and then, because they are under pressure, they work on low-value activities.

The secret to success at work is simple: “Work all the time you work!” When you go to work, put your head down, and immediately start work. If someone wants to interrupt you to talk, you excuse yourself by saying that you have to get “back to work!”
Make Life Easier

Plan every day and week in advance. You should make a list before you start each day, preferably the night before. Every minute spent in planning saves ten minutes in work or execution.

To reduce waste of time, start setting your priorities on your work list by using the A, B, C, D, E Method:

   1. Go over your list and put an A next to each of your most important tasks;
   2. Go over your list and put a B next to tasks that are not as important;
   3. Go over your list and place a C next to those tasks that are hardly important at all.

When you begin work, start on your A-1, most important tasks first thing. Practice single-handling; concentrate single-mindedly on one thing, the most important thing, and discipline yourself to stay on that task until it is 100% complete.

By developing the habit of single-minded concentration on your most important task, you will increase your productivity 50%, get your entire work life under control, double your productivity, performance and output, and reassert work-life balance.

Don’t forget to take one or two week vacations twice each year during which you do no work at all. This will help you get back into balance faster than almost anything else you can do.
Get Plenty of Rest

To increase your work-life balance, you need plenty of rest, at least 7-8 hours each night. When you get too little sleep, you build up a “sleep deficit” which causes you to go through the day in a form of “fog.” Because you are not thoroughly rested, you find it difficult to concentrate on the high-value activities that account for your success. Instead, you work on low priority, easier tasks, that contribute very little to your career.

The very act of going to bed one hour early each night, or getting one to two hours of extra sleep each night, can transform your life completely, and put your entire life back into balance.

Balance is not something that you achieve quickly and easily. It is something that you have to work at, every single day. But the good news is that, whatever you do repeatedly eventually becomes a habit. You can develop the habit of living a high performance, happy, well balanced life by simply practicing these ideas over and over until they make life easier.
Topics included in this article include
Make Life Easier
Work-Life Balance
Waste of Time


   

How do you respond when someone asks: How are you? Or, how’s your day?

 

How do you respond when someone asks: How are you?  Or, how’s your day?


Are you a victim and let people know it?  Do you describe how lousy you feel or how crappy your situation is?  Or, do you take the opportunity to communicate happiness and share positive energy?  One type of response will inspire people to want to get away from you as fast as they can; the other type of response will inspire people to find (and spread) joy.  What message are you conveying?  With just a simple answer to a simple question, you have the power to affect everyone you meet.  “We can't help everyone, but everyone can help someone.” (Ronald Reagan, 1911 – 2004.)


The other day I was standing in the checkout line at Trader Joe’s, patiently waiting my turn.  I like shopping at Trader Joe’s – I like its business model and the general positive attitude of the employees.  But, this time it was different.  As the checker began scanning my groceries, I asked him how he was doing and about his day?  He responded that he would be great – just as soon as he got out from behind his work station.  He said that people always complain to him about how hard their life is; he tells them they are the lucky ones because they are on that side of the counter.


I was shocked, not so shocked that I didn’t remind him he was lucky, and should feel fortunate to have a good job.  Nope he said; you're the lucky one for being on that side of the check-out stand.  My gut told me to get away from this guy as fast as possible; he was a negative drain and would try to zap me of all my energy.  Trader Joe’s typically has very upbeat people on staff; but here was one guy poisoning the experience for me and, I’m sure, everyone before me and after me.


I shared this experience with my friend (also a client for 20 years), Jim Ross of Horizon.  He smiled and asked, “Jim, do you want to know what I learned from a very wise man once?” I had no idea where he was going with this, but I admire his leadership and positive outlook on life, so I asked him to go on. “When someone asks me how I am doing,” he said, “I respond with just one word: unbelievable.”  Indeed, just a few minutes earlier he had said that very thing to the hostess who had shown us to our table.  That one-word response caused her to smile.  That short, but powerful one-word exchange changed her perspective and attitude and suddenly we became a couple of VIPs. All because of what Jim had said.  The amazing power about the word “unbelievable” is that people don’t know if you’re having a bad day or a good day.  It is so unusual of a reply most people just assume it is positive.


So, I decided to test this theory.  WOW!  People treated me differently.  Most people stopped what they were doing, looked up, and smiled.  One simple little word made a gigantic difference in how people treated me, which begs the question: What if we all said our day was unbelievable? If you know me, you know that I can’t (and wouldn’t) leave it at that.  I am now challenged to look for and find the unhappiest people at the checkout stand (or anywhere, for that matter) and wait for them to ask me how I am.  My response, with the volume turned up a little: UNBELEIVEABLE, how about you?  I almost always get the positive response I’m looking for.  Go figure, you and I can’t change everyone, but we can make a difference.

An Naked Image about Life which every one embraces but few with real taste of Life

Mediocre mentality considered that richness of life is to achieve certainty that's not natural phenomenon .A real certainty is that you have to take full charge of your life and say to yourself whatever will happen to me,i am going to face it with inner calm and control of mind and  vision for better future .


Now it's up you ,Take decision today and enjoy ups and downs of life  by learning from past mistakes or  just cry at each and every setback of life .which is having dead end .


Climb the tree .......make it gradual .....and win ...............!!!!!!!!